You liked a man, you start to fall in love with him , but he does not pay attention to you …
On the Internet, you can find many tips on how to fall in love with and keep a man. However, I’m sure that most of the time you will end up ruining your life by following these tips.
I have selected the most common tips on the Internet on how to get a man! And I give my comments and my vision of how this will turn out for you in the long term.
Tip 1. Never run after a man, even if you really can’t wait to get a meeting with him. The man should run after you.
My comment: when a man is interested in you, he will show it. Reflections of who SHOULD run after whom – kindergarten level.
Tip 2. Do not show your bad mood in front of him, he may think that you are hysterical or boring person.
My comment: Of course, it’s strange to go on one of the first dates in a terrible mood, and most likely you will be captured by the very idea of a date, and for a while you will forget about what spoiled your mood. If the incident was a very strong shock, then it is stupid to hide that something happened to you, it will still be insincere and fake. It is much more adequate to share your problem with a man and ask his advice. At the same time, you will learn his outlook on life and his willingness to help you with advice and deeds.
Tip 3. If you smoke, try not to do so at first. Make a good impression of you.
My comment: It is definitely better to be free from this bad habit. But how are you going to get out further? After all, sooner or later you will have to declassify. If it is categorical for a man that you do not smoke, it will be a very unpleasant surprise. If he is calm about this – what is the point of hiding it initially?
Tip 4. Do not pretend to be a very smart person, try to open up slowly. As you know, men do not like those women who are smart a lot. And it can scare a man away.
My comment: Yeah … and how long does it take to pretend to be a fool? I know one thing: smart men value a woman’s mind, stupid men are afraid. Here it is worth starting what kind of man you need.
Tip 5. To achieve his love, you need to look more than 100%. Everything should be at a high level: makeup, hairstyle, manicure and pedicure – men pay attention to this.
My comment: then men complain that before the wedding she was 200%, and having become a wife, she stopped taking care of herself. Isn’t it better to be what is natural for you, so that the man can immediately understand your attitude to these moments, and not live with illusions until the wedding itself.
Tip 6. Do not talk to a man about money, he may think that you need him only because of them. Don’t be interested in how much he makes, men don’t like these kinds of questions.
My comment: it is more important here why you really need a man. If only because of money, then no matter what you talk about and no matter what you keep silent about, he will understand this – men are not fools. In general, there is nothing wrong with showing what level of life you are accustomed to, what you are striving for. Is it more honest to first pretend that money is not the main thing, and then nag your husband for a small salary?
Tip 7. If you are a scandalous and hot-tempered woman, try not to show it in front of him, let him know about it when you achieve it.